I’ve always believed that information is power—far more valuable than money. A recent call from a family acquaintance only reinforced this belief. It was a heartbreaking conversation, one that highlighted the dire consequences of making life-altering decisions without the right information.
A woman I knew, not too closely, but well enough, called me in distress. She and her family had moved to the UK six months ago, but I had no idea. They hadn’t informed me of their plans, even though they knew I create content about immigration and life in the UK. Not that they were obligated to, but given my insights, I could have provided valuable advice. Instead, they embarked on this journey blindly, and now, they were facing the consequences.
Her voice was heavy with regret as she explained their predicament. In Nigeria, they had been doing okay—average, but stable. She had been the driving force behind the move, encouraging her husband to take the leap for a better future. However, they hadn’t accounted for all the hidden costs of moving to the UK on a study visa.
She came as a student, and her husband as a dependent, along with their five young children. The reality hit hard when she called me, sobbing:
“Gloria, is it true that I have to pay for a post-study work visa after my studies?”
I confirmed it, and she broke down.
She had assumed the transition to a work visa would be automatic. It wasn’t. Not only would she need to apply and pay for it, but she also had to ensure she passed her coursework. However, she was struggling so much that she often found herself crying in lectures, unable to concentrate.
Their financial strain was immense. They had sold their house, car, and most of their belongings to fund the move. They had borrowed millions, believing they would quickly regain stability once in the UK. But their money had been drained by visa fees, immigration health surcharges, school deposits, and everyday living costs. Now, six months in, they still owed a large sum for tuition, had debts back home, and were constantly receiving calls from creditors demanding repayment.
Her husband worked full-time, but his earnings barely covered rent and daily expenses. She couldn’t take on a job easily, as someone had to care for the children. Finding accommodation had been a nightmare, forcing them to live in temporary housing for months, spending what little they had on hotels and short-term rentals.
“I regret coming,” she whispered through her tears.
I told her the truth: she wasn’t the first, and she wouldn’t be the last. Many people ignore the importance of thorough research before making a drastic move. The information was always available, but people often choose to believe what they want to hear.
For anyone considering a move to another country, research is non-negotiable. Understanding the immigration process, financial requirements, job prospects, and potential hurdles is crucial. No one should gamble their entire livelihood on assumptions.
Before you pack your bags, gather the right information. Because, as this story proves, a lack of it can cost far more than money—it can cost you peace, stability, and even your dreams.